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Selective (Situational) Mutism Support

Calm, practical support for children and families

Selective mutism is an anxiety-based communication difficulty, not a choice or behavioural issue. Children with selective mutism are often able to speak freely in some settings, while finding speech extremely difficult or impossible in others.

Families supporting a child with selective mutism can feel overwhelmed, isolated, and unsure where to turn — particularly when practical, day-to-day support is limited or hard to access.

Who this support is for

This support may be helpful for:

  • Children experiencing selective mutism or significant speaking anxiety
  • Parents and carers who are struggling to manage the day-to-day impact at home
  • Families who have been given a plan or advice but feel unsure how to implement it in real life
  • Parents who feel they are navigating this largely on their own
     

 Support is primarily offered in person in Somerset.
In some circumstances, and following discussion with parents or carers, online sessions may be considered where this feels appropriate for the child. 

My understanding of selective mutism

Selective mutism is rooted in anxiety and nervous system responses, not defiance, stubbornness, or lack of understanding.


Many children:

  • Want to speak but feel unable to
  • Become highly vigilant in social or educational settings
  • Experience pressure — even well-intentioned — as overwhelming


Progress is usually gradual and depends on safety, trust, and consistency.

My role and approach

 My work does not replace NHS, Speech and Language Therapy (SLT), or CAMHS input. Instead, I offer additional, complementary support, focused on:

  • Reducing anxiety and pressure around communication
  • Supporting emotional safety and confidence
  • Helping families understand what helps — and what can unintentionally increase anxiety
  • Providing practical, realistic strategies that fit everyday family life
     

Sessions are:

  • Child-led and paced carefully
  • Grounded in anxiety-aware, non-pressured approaches
  • Adapted to the child’s age, needs, and comfort
     

Often, the work is indirect — focusing first on safety, regulation, and confidence rather than speech itself.

Support for parents and families

Many parents are given information or a plan but receive little ongoing, practical support with implementation.


I work with parents and carers to:

  • Translate guidance into manageable, real-world steps
  • Reduce pressure on both the child and the family
  • Build confidence in how to respond in everyday situations
  • Create consistency across home and other settings where possible
     

This support recognises how challenging and emotionally demanding this can be for families.

Training and experience

  •  Background in education, working with children and young people outside mainstream settings
  • Specialist training in Selective Mutism with Maggie Johnson
  • Ongoing professional development in anxiety-informed therapeutic practice
     

This work is approached with care, humility, and respect for the complexity of selective mutism.

Location and availability

 Selective mutism support is primarily offered in person in Somerset.
This allows sessions to be paced appropriately and tailored to the child’s needs in a way that online work cannot always support.

If you are unsure whether in-person support is suitable, this can be discussed gently and without pressure.

In some circumstances, and following discussion with parents or carers, online sessions may be considered where this feels appropriate for the child. 

Next steps

If you are considering support and would like to talk things through:

  • You are welcome to book a free 15-minute, no-obligation telephone call
  • This gives you space to ask questions and decide whether this feels like the right support for your family
     

There is no expectation to commit.

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