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Selective Mutism Support for Children and Families

Calm, practical support for children and families

Selective mutism is an anxiety-based communication difficulty, not a choice or behavioural issue. Children with selective mutism are often able to speak comfortably in some settings, while finding speaking extremely difficult or impossible in others.   Difficulties are often most noticeable in school, social, or unfamiliar environments where anxiety levels are high. 

Families supporting a child with selective mutism can feel overwhelmed, isolated, and unsure where to turn — particularly when practical, day-to-day support is limited or hard to access.

Who this support is for

This support may be helpful for:

  • Children experiencing selective mutism or significant speaking anxiety 
  • Parents and carers feeling overwhelmed or unsure how best to help 
  • Families struggling to implement strategies consistently in everyday life 
  • Children experiencing anxiety linked to school, social situations, or communication
     

 Support is primarily offered in person in Somerset.
In some circumstances, and following discussion with parents or carers, online sessions may be considered where this feels appropriate for the child. 

My understanding of selective mutism

Selective mutism is rooted in anxiety and nervous system responses, not defiance, stubbornness, or lack of understanding.


Many children:

  • Want to speak but feel unable to
  • Become highly vigilant in social or educational settings
  • Experience pressure — even well-intentioned — as overwhelming


Progress is usually gradual and depends on safety, trust, and consistency.

My role and approach

I provide calm, supportive, anxiety-aware sessions tailored carefully to each child’s individual needs and pace. Reducing anxiety and pressure around communication

  • Supporting emotional safety and confidence
  • Helping families understand what helps — and what can unintentionally increase anxiety
  • Providing practical, realistic strategies that fit everyday family life
     

Sessions are:

  • Child-led and paced carefully
  • Grounded in anxiety-aware, non-pressured approaches
  • Adapted to the child’s age, needs, and comfort
     

Often, the work is indirect — focusing first on safety, regulation, and confidence rather than speech itself.   This support is complementary and does not replace NHS, Speech and Language Therapy (SLT), or CAMHS involvement where needed. 

Support for parents and families

Many parents are given information or a plan but receive little ongoing, practical support with implementation.


I work with parents and carers to:

  • Translate guidance into manageable, real-world steps
  • Reduce pressure on both the child and the family
  • Build confidence in how to respond in everyday situations
  • Create consistency across home and other settings where possible
     

This support recognises how challenging and emotionally demanding this can be for families.

Training and experience

  •  Background in education, working with children and young people outside mainstream settings
  • Specialist training in Selective Mutism with Maggie Johnson
  • Ongoing professional development in anxiety-informed therapeutic practice
     

 My work with children is supported by a background in education, specialist selective mutism training, ongoing professional development, and an enhanced DBS certificate. 

Location and availability

 Selective mutism support is primarily offered in person in Somerset, allowing sessions to be paced carefully and tailored to each child’s individual needs.

In-person work can often provide a gentler and more flexible environment for building safety, trust, and confidence at the child’s own pace.

In some circumstances, online parent support sessions or online appointments may also be considered where appropriate and discussed collaboratively with families.

If you are unsure what type of support may be most suitable, this can be explored gently and without pressure during an initial conversation.

Next steps

If you are considering support and would like to talk things through:

  • You are welcome to book a free 15-minute, no-obligation telephone call
  • This gives you space to ask questions and decide whether this feels like the right support for your family
     

There is no expectation to commit.

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